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Harvard Heart Letter
Copyright: President and Fellows of Harvard College
Volume 10, Number 7, April 2000
Stages of Change: Getting to
Where You Want to Be
So often in the Heart Letter we give you advice on how to get
heart-healthy: eat right, lose weight, exercise, stop smoking. For many
of us, this means dropping a bad habit or instituting a new, healthy
one; in other words, change. But change is difficult. Simply knowing
that something is or isn’t good for you doesn’t make it any easier
to actually start or stop that behavior. And yet, some people do. We all
know someone who quit smoking or lost weight. What enabled these people
to change and how did they summon the will to maintain their new,
healthier behaviors?
In navigating the road to understanding successful change, psychologists
James Prochaska, John Norcross, and Carlo DiClemente asked these very
same questions. But rather than analyzing academic theory and expert
opinion, they studied the strategies of thousands of people who changed
a behavior without “outside help,” such as therapy or formal
programs. Instead of trying to determine what people should do to
successfully make a change, they studied what people actually did do to
change.
The result of this analysis is a behavioral model called Stages of
Change. The basic principle behind it is that most successful
self-changers go through each of the following six stages:
precontemplation, contemplation, preparation, action, maintenance, and
termination. This “theory” has been applied to helping people change
— and it works.
The Stages of Change model is a general guideline that you can apply to
almost any habit that you want to change, from quitting smoking to
controlling your anger to developing an active lifestyle. Try to
thoroughly work your way through each step before proceeding to the
next.
1. Precontemplation
If you are in the precontemplation stage, you may still be in denial of
your problem, or you simply don’t want to change. Though you admit
that you smoke, you are unwilling to admit that it has any negative
consequences for you or the people around you. You might still be
waiting for the “definitive” study to prove that smoking causes lung
cancer, or you might cite the example of a grandfather who smoked and
lived to be 85.
People who are in this stage are also likely to defend their behavior or
blame others for their problems. If you know someone in this stage, the
best thing to do is to raise his or her consciousness. Finding out what
the “barrier” is (that is, what might help make a person want to
change) can assist as well. If a friend is obese, for example, ask if he
or she knows that being overweight significantly increases the risk of
developing heart disease. The goal at this stage is to get the
individual (or yourself) to acknowledge the negative consequences of his
or her action, and to think about changing it. When you’ve let your
defenses down and become aware of the facts and consequences of your
behavior, it’s more difficult to reverse the process.
2. Contemplation
Once you become aware that you have a problem and have started thinking
and learning about it, you’ve entered the contemplation stage. For
example, you now admit that regular exercise is essential to a healthy
lifestyle, or that it’s not alright to have four to five alcoholic
drinks every evening. In this stage you are actively collecting
information in preparation for change and are seriously thinking about
making that change within the next six months. You should get to the
point where you are convinced that your life would be substantially
better if you altered your behavior.
But don’t fall into the trap of chronic contemplation. Someone who
wants to become active could spend months trying to figure out which
would be the best exercise program for him or her. On the other hand,
it’s also important not to jump too quickly into action, because
premature action is likely to lead to failure.
3. Preparation
Preparation is the transition from deciding to change to planning
exactly how to go about changing. You’re still learning, but rather
than collecting information about the problem, you’re gathering data
about a solution. The first step is to determine what action would solve
your problem. For example, if smoking or troubled drinking were the
problem, then abstinence would be the solution. If a high-fat diet is
the problem, the goal should be to get fewer than 30% of your total
calories from fat. But the planning process involves more than just
making a list of low-fat foods to substitute for the high-fat ones.
First, you must prepare yourself to make this change a priority in your
life. Adding exercise to your schedule might mean missing out on an
extra hour of sleep. It’s also important to prepare those around you
for the change. If you’re giving up smoking, for example, you should
warn family, friends, and colleagues that your mood might be
unpredictable.
Mental preparation is just as important as physical preparation. If you
are giving up alcohol, know what you’re going to tell coworkers if
they ask you to join them for a drink. And be aware that once you make
your change, others might begin to see you differently. And you may view
yourself in a whole new light.
Another thing you should do is to go public with your decision to
change. Meeting the expectation of others can be a far more potent
motivator than keeping a promise to yourself. Finally, set a date to
begin your change and stick to it.
4. Action
When you’re fully committed to taking action, go for it! Join the gym,
start counting calories, or swear off those cigarettes. Though this may
be the most rewarding time, it will also be challenging. At first, avoid
temptation. Don’t join your colleagues for a smoking break and expect
that you will be able to resist lighting up. Fill up the hours that you
might otherwise have spent going to the local bar. Call a friend, learn
to cook, or take up piano lessons. You might also find it helpful to
reward yourself for good behavior in this stage. If you stick to your
exercise regimen for a month, allow yourself to splurge on a new outfit.
Ask family and friends for positive reinforcement when you follow
through on a change. While it isn’t unusual to slip up a few times
during this stage, do your best not to. It can undermine your commitment
to change. But if you do, don’t let one mistake obliterate your
efforts.
5. Maintenance
After about six months in the action stage, you will find yourself
transitioning into maintenance. Maintenance is the long haul, for most
people, a lifetime commitment. Successful maintenance of change depends
on more than avoiding temptation and rewarding yourself for good
behaviors. You must rethink what you found appealing about the habit in
the first place. You may remember that having a cigarette calmed your
nerves after a stressful day at work. Now is the time to find new, less
self-destructive ways to deal with that stress. Don’t delude yourself
into thinking that you’re strong enough to have one drink, cigarette,
or brownie, and then control yourself from having another. Also, expect
and be prepared for social pressure and special situations. A friend is
bound to offer you a piece of cake, “now that you’ve lost all that
weight,” or a new client, unaware of your former drinking problem,
might order a bottle of wine during a business dinner. Just think back
to all the reasons why you stopped your negative behavior in the first
place, and remember how hard it was to quit the first time. Again,
relapses are not uncommon and in fact may be different for different
problems. Many people cycle through the stages more than once before
effecting a permanent change. Even so, work hard to prevent relapses.
6. Termination
Although psychologists disagree about whether anyone actually terminates
the process of change, Prochaska and his colleagues view it as a point
where you are no longer tempted to return to the way things were.
Someone at this stage would not even want a cigarette if it were offered
to him or her. They also note, however, that few “changers” reach
this stage (permanent change) — perhaps only 20% — and the final
success rates vary depending on the behavior change undertaken. For
example, most smokers who quit eventually do reach the termination
stage. Relapses, while discouraging, offer the chance to try again and
often individuals find they can refine and improve what they’ve
learned about themselves and the process of change as they re-cycle
through the action and maintenance stages. In the face of repeated
relapses, some people decide to seek professional help in their efforts.
It is not unusual, however, for many people to remain in the maintenance
stage, still tempted by old habits, but resolved not to give in to them.
And in terms of heart-health, this is truly a worthy accomplishment.
The stages of change
model is detailed in the book “Changing for Good” by James Prochaska,
John C. Norcross, and Carlo C. DiClemente (Avon Books, 1995).
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